Today is Sunday, November 1st, 2020, with only two more days until “Election Day”. It has been a LONG TIME kgetting to here, with many words being slung back and forth.
At this point in time, I have many conflicting feelings circling through my mind and spirit… ANXIETY over who will be the next President; ANTICIPATION and GRATITUDE that soon all the ads (positive AND negative, the back-stabbing, and rhetoric will disappear; FEAR over what will come afterwards; HOPE that there will be an opportunity for change and healing; and DREAD, that the differing factions on both sides will be unwilling or unable to come together ¡for the good of the country.
This election has caused me to do a lot of soul-searching, perhaps more so than ever before… I have been voting in every electIon since I was 18, and that is a LONG time, and sometimes I felt that I was probably voting AGAINST someone, more than FOR a candidate. so, I have wondered, what makes THIS such an important election, or as everyone seems to be saying, “it’s the most important election in our history”?
It does seem that this time, there are such marked divisions that have polarized each side, and it has been very hard to keep from taking one side or the other… it is the old adage that “if you aren’t for me then you are against me, There seems to be no middle-ground, which is very disturbing.
I have always hated being put in the position of having to choose because I know that there is no way that is perfect, except God’s way. I have grown up with the belief that every life is sacred and valuable, but lately I have really had to question that idea… in my ignorance and privilege, I have never really recognized, until the last few years, how people have not been treated in that way… for some, the deck has been stacked in their favor, while for others those same rules and opportunities have not been available. I have come to see that.all things have not been equal. What was written in the Declaration of Independence has not been truly lived out….
This year has brought into focus some stark differences that our country and people have not really wanted to acknowledge because, in many people’s minds, to give to another means that we must give up what is ours… I have been reminded that “there, but for the grace of God, go I”.
This really became evident when I worked for a time at a Pregnancy Counseling organization, where I heard many stories of how some women became pregnant… it was not all hearts and flowers, and often they saw abortion as their only alternative. I also came to see, firsthand, how some churches who were the biggest Pro-life believers were really there, in name only, because when it came to helping one woma;n, who was in desperate straights financially, the help was not there. It took an individual person, who stepped up, and made it possible for this woman to keep her baby and prepare to be able to care for that baby.
I have even come to realize that my faith has even been compromised for the sake of keeping things the way they are…as I have grown older, I have come to see the commonality in all beliefs, instead of focusing on the differences, and that has been a blessing for me. I am seeing that if I “stand by” then I am not “standing with”…I must try to understand the other person, and their circumstances, before I make a blanket judgment.
I have been seeing the word SOLIDARITY used lately… gathers simple meaning is UNITY or AGREEMENT off feeling or action, especially among individuals with a common interest; it is the MUTUAL support within a group.
In my work with incarcerated women, I also began to understand that often their actions were consequences of the situations they grew up in… they didn’t think there was another way. With all things being equal, their decisions and actions might have been very different. Instead of just locking them up, and throwing away the key, are we willing to help them envision a different way of life?
So, as this election is decided, I am wondering if it will be possible for us, as a nation, as communities, as families, and as individuals to lput this behind us and stand together in solidarity? Can we join together, in peace, to reach over to the “other side”, and work together to make things better FOR ALL OF US?
Can I do my part to see things as they are, in truth, instead of seeing things the way I want them to be FOR ME?
This is what I pray for on THIS Election Day….